Friends = Enemies

      Friends,    

Will they be your Sweetest Dream or Worst Nightmare?

                                                Will pride be your companion or foe?

                                                            Will your moves will be Now or Never?                

 Friendship is not just having fun, laugh with each other and making happy memories. Friendship is not similar to euphemism or mutual understanding. Friendship does not mean a couple but one.  Friendship is not specific as we think, that when you are acquainted to each other it means that you are friends. Friendship has a deeper meaning.

Friendship is also a start of war, misunderstanding, hatred, criticism and inequality. Friendship teaches you how to fight, support, sacrifice and stand. Is there any instances that when you in your circle of friendship, you feel that you’re happy and never thought of any complications, that these will last forever? Everybody does, and so am I.  But sometimes we were surprised that suddenly our thoughts will fade and nothings left but pride and conclude END will always in the midway of friENDship. Friends can break your trust, your feelings and yourself! You feel that they don’t understand you, you feel also that they blame you of something and worst, you feel that they hurt you and nobody will save you. You always believe that you were right; they were wrong. You always believe that you don’t have the right to feel sorry; they must. You always believe that you don’t want to do the first move; they should. And you believe pride is your companion, not your other friends.

Friends do fight! But what makes it challenging is that nobody lost but absolutely everybody won. Time will heal everything. You will come to realize along the way that things will get better soon. Just do what you think is right and don’t treat the situation as “swallowing-your-pride”. Do the first moves, if you think you were right, then you have the greater point of view of this kind of situation. You are doing this not because you swallowed your pride but because you don’t want to end your friendship. We cannot avoid such misunderstanding but we can prevent such wars. Let your embers become fire! A food is not that delicious without spices! Sometimes you need to feel pain before achieving glory!